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diapermingus · 26-08-2008

If the only reason you date this girl is because she's an AB, then it's keeping both of you from having a fulfilling relationship with someone who really cares about you. You say you love her a lot, yet you also imply that her weight really turns you off. Do you want her to lose weight because it would be healthier and better for her (a good reason), or because you find her unattractive (an unpleasant and, frankly, ugly reason)? If you would break up with her except for being worried about finding someone better, that's a lousy reason to stay in a relationship.

Trying to circumvent her moral and religious convictions would be even more reprehensible than dumping her because she's overweight. Your diaper fetish isn't keeping you from losing your virginity, but it sounds like it's keeping you in a relationship you might not really want to be in.

Since you asked, I think you will persist in being a virgin because you have yet to form a serious and stable adult relationship. Your headlong pursuit of diaper sex is blinding you to the fact that this relationship isn't working for you. I think it's also keeping you from examining your own motives. Simply seeking sex is a terrible way to find a relationship. It is also a terrible way to lose your virginity. Leave this poor girl, whom you seem to be treating primarily as a sex object, and get used to making do with your hand until you can demonstrate the maturity that goes along with starting a sexual relationship.

On a personal note, my first girlfriend (with whom I lost my virginity) never knew I was a DL, and we went out for nearly two years. So no, it didn't keep me a virgin. And my girlfriend now knows I am a DL. We sometimes have diaper sex (with only me in a diaper, which turns her on a lot because she likes to see me turned on), but mostly we don't. It's virtually never been a problem in our sex life.

Finally, careful how you throw around the term 'normal'. Are you suggesting girls who are overweight aren't normal? Are you suggesting that having this fetish keeps you from being normal? Are you suggesting that having religious beliefs that sex outside marriage is wrong means someone isn't normal? Normal is a loaded word, and being normal is something that many people here would find overrated.

26-08-2008	#28 (permalink)
diapermingus VIP Join Date: Mar 2008 Location: Scotland Age: 21 Posts: 252 Threads: 8 Wiki Edits: 2	It's not your fetish that keeps you from getting laid... If the only reason you date this girl is because she's an AB, then it's keeping both of you from having a fulfilling relationship with someone who really cares about you. You say you love her a lot, yet you also imply that her weight really turns you off. Do you want her to lose weight because it would be healthier and better for her (a good reason), or because you find her unattractive (an unpleasant and, frankly, ugly reason)? If you would break up with her except for being worried about finding someone better, that's a lousy reason to stay in a relationship. Trying to circumvent her moral and religious convictions would be even more reprehensible than dumping her because she's overweight. Your diaper fetish isn't keeping you from losing your virginity, but it sounds like it's keeping you in a relationship you might not really want to be in. Since you asked, I think you will persist in being a virgin because you have yet to form a serious and stable adult relationship. Your headlong pursuit of diaper sex is blinding you to the fact that this relationship isn't working for you. I think it's also keeping you from examining your own motives. Simply seeking sex is a terrible way to find a relationship. It is also a terrible way to lose your virginity. Leave this poor girl, whom you seem to be treating primarily as a sex object, and get used to making do with your hand until you can demonstrate the maturity that goes along with starting a sexual relationship. On a personal note, my first girlfriend (with whom I lost my virginity) never knew I was a DL, and we went out for nearly two years. So no, it didn't keep me a virgin. And my girlfriend now knows I am a DL. We sometimes have diaper sex (with only me in a diaper, which turns her on a lot because she likes to see me turned on), but mostly we don't. It's virtually never been a problem in our sex life. Finally, careful how you throw around the term 'normal'. Are you suggesting girls who are overweight aren't normal? Are you suggesting that having this fetish keeps you from being normal? Are you suggesting that having religious beliefs that sex outside marriage is wrong means someone isn't normal? Normal is a loaded word, and being normal is something that many people here would find overrated.