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KittyKat · 21-08-2008

If I were you I would find a woman that is truly in love with you and that isn't too narrow-minded. I would be honest with her once you become fairly close and tell her about your AB/DLism. If she doesn't accept you the way you are then you need to find another woman. Don't wait until your married to tell her.

For me, I want to find a loving husband and eventually have kids or adopt. My AB side wants a mommy though, but not in a sexual way. So I guess things are even more complicated for me

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21-08-2008	#4 (permalink)
KittyKat Regular Join Date: Jan 2008 Location: California, USA Age: 19 Posts: 174 Threads: 10 Reputation: 5	If I were you I would find a woman that is truly in love with you and that isn't too narrow-minded. I would be honest with her once you become fairly close and tell her about your AB/DLism. If she doesn't accept you the way you are then you need to find another woman. Don't wait until your married to tell her. For me, I want to find a loving husband and eventually have kids or adopt. My AB side wants a mommy though, but not in a sexual way. So I guess things are even more complicated for me.