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Old 03-08-2008   #6 (permalink)
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Originally Posted by secret101 View Post
for instance I do know a girl that might dig me and I kinda dig her, but its like Im paralyzed with fear of rejection and I do not want to come off as a dork. I mean I cant drive I am lucky if once every other week I see a friend. I feel like my social life is crap and I worry that I wont have the social skills to find someone that I can really bond with and connect with, but I am sooooo f#%@ing awkward and it makes me feel like crap inside.

Can someone please help me out and suggestions or advice anything.
This used to get me down, not seeing friends all that often, it can be depressing. Can't you ring them, or talk online? It might not be the best thing but at least you're keeping contact.
What are buses/trains like where you live? Because you could use them instead of driving... How old to you have to be to drive? Just throw yourself into getting that licence ASAP.

As for this girl that you 'dig', I say go for it! You think she might 'dig' you too, that's always a good start. Get in there, and talk to her, see where things go. If you're worried about a lack of social skills, this is where you get them from. Sure, this girl might reject you, but you learn from every experience, so even if things go wrong you're gaining social skills.

Make your friends come to you! Have a sleep over, or beg your parents to let you have a party! Bring to wildness to you!
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