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Old 03-08-2008   #18 (permalink)
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If by "experience sexual attraction" we mean getting horny at the sight of someone hot, or fantasizing erotic encounters (and therefore getting horny), I don't think I've ever experienced anything like that. You can put me in front of a naked "sex symbol", and I would be like "so what?". I've also never been interested in porn, I honestly always found it quite bad taste. Does this make me asexual?

The idea of having a partner who can't live without sex (like the vast majority of people is in this world seems to be) is in fact one of the main reasons for which I've always been single and happy to be so. Not that I wouldn't like to experience some couple life, and not that I'm absolutely against the idea of having sex with someone, simply it's not at the top of my priorities list, probably not even in the first 10.

Dreams, being a subconscious activity, can be imho a reliable sign of the direction that our mind takes when we get aroused. And the rare times I experience wet dreams, they're always connected with diapers, caused by a lack of them to be more exact, and thus trying to compensate with onirical diaper experiences the lack of real experiences. Needless to say that if I regularly wear diapers I don't experience wet dreams at all. That's basically why in my profile I put "DL" as my sexuality, meaning that - until now - diapers are the only thing that my body and my mind gave me clear proof of being sexually attracted to.
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