Do you want them a guy, girl?
A educated, well rounded, socially adept woman.
Do they have to be in the same age range, older, younger?
I would say + or - 4 years from my current age
Do they have to look a certain way?
They have to take care of themselves. Someone who is concerned enough to make sure they don't look like hell but someone who isn't overly concerned with there appearance.
Do they have to have a certain job, or amount of money?
They should be gainfully employed. I prefer education but if the person is right and they didn't make it through college/university and they have a job they love. Then I suppose that would be alright
Do they have to be abdl? If so, mommy/daddy, baby, or playmate?
No they don't but they have to be at least excepting of my interests. It wouldn't hurt though.
Do they have to be good in bed, or does that matter at all?
Define good in bed? This question should probably read should they be accepting of your short comings in bed. In which case I say yes. I suck I know it. They need to be ok with that
Do they have to live near you or are you willing to travel?
As long as I can find a job, a place to live, and a sense of purpose I'm willing to live most places.
Anything else?
It helps when the family likes me
Also. I'm always thoroughly disappointed when I read that girls need guys to be taller then them. It makes me a sad Demon. While I'm not short short I'm not a giant either. I'd like the chance to show who I am before I get shutdown for being a specific height.