[quote=Mandi;59266]I put this in the AB section because I imagine it's the older members who are looking more for that perfect partner.
Since I did marry, I'll tell you what I did...and many of you know my college history...crazy, gay, drug induced, shrink... so you may be surprised.
Do you want them a guy, girl? Girl
Do they have to be in the same age range, older, younger? One year younger.
Do they have to look a certain way? She still is good looking..a little over weight. I was 135 lbs at the time
Do they have to have a certain job, or amount of money? No was poor like me at the time.
Do they have to be abdl? If so, mommy/daddy, baby, or playmate? No, and I didn't tell her I was. I told her of my past sexual experiences and preferences which she accepted.
Do they have to be good in bed, or does that matter at all? Didn't matter, as I had done it all before marriage.
Do they have to live near you or are you willing to travel? Lived an hour away, she quit her job to be near me, then we got married.
Anything else? I knew that some of my sexual desires were not healthy, neither for me or the western free world. I didn't like that person, and I also knew that I wanted to be a good father, and a responsible person. I didn't just rush into marriage, but I knew it was something that I wanted. Many years later I find I desperately love my wife, who now struggles with her diabetes. The thing is, even though I have just recently told her about my ABism, we are a team. We accept each other and all our frailties. As for my children, they are the greatest. My wife and my children are my reason for living. In that regard, I am a lucky man.
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