I haven't really put much thought into 'my perfect partner'...
It could be a guy or a girl, I haven't decided yet...
As for age I think they'd have to be around my age, I'd feel uncomfortable any other way.
I don't really care about looks... And I certainly I don't care about money or jobs or anything like that.
Ideally my partner would be a ABDL (caretaker), but that's unrealistic. I just want an open-minded person who would be willing to do sexual stuff in my way too
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Good or bad in bed doesn't matter, but I think any partner I would have would have to be slightly unusual in bed.... I can't see a a very vanilla person every really doing the AB thing.
I guess being nearby would be very important, i think I'd struggle in a long distance relationship.